win32: Don't set SO_REUSEADDR on listen socket.
According to Postgres src/backend/libpq/pqcomm.c:
/*
* Without the SO_REUSEADDR flag, a new postmaster can't be started
* right away after a stop or crash, giving "address already in use"
* error on TCP ports.
*
* On win32, however, this behavior only happens if the
* SO_EXLUSIVEADDRUSE is set. With SO_REUSEADDR, win32 allows multiple
* servers to listen on the same address, resulting in unpredictable
* behavior. With no flags at all, win32 behaves as Unix with
* SO_REUSEADDR.
*/