Fix pgpool crash when pgpool child process exits.

Fix pgpool crash when pgpool child process exits.

When a pgpool child process exits, close_all_backend_connections() is
called, which is responsible for closing all connections to backend in
the connection pool. It used mistakenly MAIN_CONNECTION macro, which
is fine for current active connections but is not good for pooled
connections because a main node could be different at the time when
the connection pool was created. Fix is using in_use_backend()
instead.

Reported-by: Emond Papegaaij
Backpatch-through: v4.2